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Re: Crying [message #410213 is a reply to message #409837]

Wed, 11 November 2009 03:30

Dave Anderson
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Registered: December 2004
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I do not cry. Ask anyone who knows me: parents, siblings, friends. I simply do not and have not cried in the past 5 years or so. (I'm 19). My motto? If something bad happens, deal with it. Suck it up and move on. I do not cry when someone dies, I do not cry when something bad happens. This is my personality.

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But the reality of it is, anyone who has this personality (seems like your friend), simply, is lying. I bottle everything up, all the time. I never talk about my problems, but I am also one of the most outgoing and happy individuals anyone knows. What they don't know is that when I turn my back, I'm not that same individual. It's a pretty great facade to a couple things that have happened to me in the past.

Your friend, may be the same way, I don't know. All I know is people with a similar personality usually tend to work things out on their own, and are better left alone. If people try to tell me how to handle my emotions/life, I basically tell them to get the hell away from me (in a nice manner of course, but that's how I mean it).

When I do lose it: It's bad. Run. Luckily, these things never happen. I usually just brush everything off.

I agree with some people here though. Bottling things up over the years, I think I have lost the ability to express certain emotions. I don't feel sympothy/empathy for people who have lost loved ones, when something bad happens to them, or anything really. I don't know why, honestly.

The good part is in the past year or so I've gotten over those couple of things that had bothered me so much, so I'm not really that way anymore.

Depression is a bad thing, and I spent a lot of money on repairing things I broke from losing my temper/cool. It wasn't fun - at all -

David Anderson
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		Re: Crying By: SSADMVR on Sun, 08 November 2009 13:48
		Re: Crying By: CarrierII on Sun, 08 November 2009 13:57
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		Re: Crying By: R315r4z0r on Sun, 08 November 2009 19:00
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		Re: Crying By: liquidv2 on Wed, 11 November 2009 22:50
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		Re: Crying By: EvilWhiteDragon on Mon, 09 November 2009 11:17
		Re: Crying By: SSADMVR on Mon, 09 November 2009 11:15
		Re: Crying By: Sladewill on Mon, 09 November 2009 11:19
		Re: Crying By: luv2pb on Mon, 09 November 2009 13:42
		Re: Crying By: ChewML on Mon, 09 November 2009 14:28
		Re: Crying By: NukeIt15 on Mon, 09 November 2009 14:33
		Re: Crying By: Sladewill on Mon, 09 November 2009 15:32
		Re: Crying By: Wiener on Tue, 10 November 2009 02:59
		Re: Crying By: Dave Anderson on Wed, 11 November 2009 03:30
		Re: Crying By: _SSnipe_ on Wed, 11 November 2009 15:39
		Re: Crying By: Sladewill on Wed, 11 November 2009 15:12
		Re: Crying By: Dave Anderson on Fri, 13 November 2009 08:08
		Re: Crying By: dr3w2 on Tue, 15 December 2009 22:40
		Re: Crying By: GEORGE ZIMMER on Wed, 11 November 2009 15:29
		Re: Crying By: Sladewill on Fri, 13 November 2009 09:47
		Re: Crying By: renalpha on Tue, 15 December 2009 00:59
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		Re: Crying By: ChewML on Mon, 21 December 2009 15:44
		Re: Crying By: SSADMVR on Wed, 23 December 2009 12:16
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		Re: Crying By: raven on Wed, 23 December 2009 12:20
		Re: Crying By: renalpha on Mon, 21 December 2009 16:42
		Re: Crying By: zeratul on Mon, 21 December 2009 22:58
		Re: Crying By: ChewML on Tue, 22 December 2009 07:38
		Re: Crying By: Tunaman on Tue, 22 December 2009 07:48
		Re: Crying By: [NE]Fobby[GEN] on Wed, 23 December 2009 18:51
		Re: Crying By: CarrierII on Thu, 24 December 2009 09:02
		Re: Crying By: ChewML on Thu, 24 December 2009 09:13
		Re: Crying By: CarrierII on Sun, 27 December 2009 11:23

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