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| Re: What are you views on this? [message #309609 is a reply to message #308977] |
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GEORGE ZIMMER
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Eh. Aslong as she's not getting raped or whatever, it's fine. Even if it ends up in disaster.
People learn things best when they see it with their own eyes. So if she sees that online dating sucks, she'll probably be less apt to do it.
Personally though, online dating CAN work out, aslong as you both live within a reasonable distance between eachother and can drive to eachother once every week or once every other week or so. Sometimes they can end up being better too, if you're able to keep a relationship going through talking instead of sexual desires.
But being 13? Eh. It won't work out, but as I said, let her find out for herself. Another part of being a teenager is pretty much disobeying what everyone says. Someone tells you to stop, you go. Someone tells you to not jump off a cliff, you make a sport named "Cliff jumping".
Well, when they're a parent, anyways.
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| cAmpa wrote on Sat, 24 January 2009 12:45 |
Scrin, stop pming people to get the building bars.
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FUCK YOU AND THIS SHIT GAME WITH YOUR SCRIPTS!!! I HAVE ASKING YOU AND ANOTHER NOOBS HERE ABOUT HELP WITH THAT BUILDING ICONS FEATURES FOR YEARS, BUT YOU KEEP IGNORING ME AND KEEP WRITE SHIT, SO BURN YOU AND YOUR ASSLICKERS FRIENDS, THIS TIME I'M NOT COME BACK!!!!!!!!!   
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| Re: What are you views on this? [message #309643 is a reply to message #309607] |
Thu, 10 January 2008 14:24 |
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cheesesoda
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| MWright967 wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 15:16 |
| cheesesoda wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 14:04 |
I was taught no sex before marriage, too. Then I got a girlfriend, and that was the end of that goal.
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I'll admit, it was pretty hard. Especially when the girl does the ''Lets talk dirty'' thing. AKA: Making the boy get too horny for his own.
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I'm not so much into the "let's talk dirty" as having the girl being open about sexuality. Saying things regarding being horny and having a little fun in showers and such. I can't resist the power of that.
I was in the whole "I hate the world" phase, but without the whole being angsty and emo moods. Still, that didn't stop me from trying to get somewhere with a few girls here and there.
Edit: Carrier, that's what has me saying, "and then you'll find out she's having sex with a guy on a staircase in the gym."
whoa.
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| Re: What are you views on this? [message #309749 is a reply to message #309588] |
Thu, 10 January 2008 19:58 |
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Dover
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| MWright967 wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 11:11 |
I will keep her virgin as long as humanly possible.
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To what end?
| DarkDemin wrote on Thu, 03 August 2006 19:19 |
Remember kids the internet is serious business.
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| Re: What are you views on this? [message #309776 is a reply to message #309765] |
Thu, 10 January 2008 22:47 |
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Dover
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| MWright967 wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 20:24 |
| Dover wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 20:58 |
| MWright967 wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 11:11 |
I will keep her virgin as long as humanly possible.
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To what end?
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What do you mean to what end? Shes my baby girl, I'm not letting some sweaty little boy violate her. Once you have kids, you'll understand how I feel. Your daughter is your most prized possession in the world.
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That's the creepiest thing I've ever heard. A daughter is not a possession. She's a person, and like other people, she has free will.
You're deluding yourself if you think you're going to be able to exercise absolute control over her. If she turns 16 and decideds she wants to have sex, she's going to have sex, and there's little (Read: nothing) you can do to stop her short of locking her a in a closet. If she wants to have some sweaty little boy violate her, that's her decision to make.
In any case, I fail to see how keeping her a virgin as long as humanly possible is a form of protection. Sex is the most dangerous when you know nothing about it, and in all things, the best way to learn something it to do it. I'm not saying you should encourage your daughter to go out and have as much sex as she can "for the experience", nor do I presume to tell you how to raise your children, but sooner or later, wether you like it or not, chances are your kids are going to be having sex, and it'll be a damned shame if they're clueless at 30.
| DarkDemin wrote on Thu, 03 August 2006 19:19 |
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| Re: What are you views on this? [message #309777 is a reply to message #309776] |
Thu, 10 January 2008 23:01 |
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Starbuzz
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Dover, you misunderstand MWright. A similar situation is going on in my home with my sister and my dad. A father's love for his daughter should not be taken as "creepiest" and he did not mean it to be taken literally when he said "possession." Every responsible parent will go through a phase of "concern" when it comes to their children at this point.
I know this because this is happening in my home.
I do understand that there will be a time when children would want to go on their own without any parental guidance (duh).
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| Re: What are you views on this? [message #309842 is a reply to message #309776] |
Fri, 11 January 2008 09:08 |
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Jecht
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| Dover wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 23:47 |
| MWright967 wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 20:24 |
| Dover wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 20:58 |
| MWright967 wrote on Thu, 10 January 2008 11:11 |
I will keep her virgin as long as humanly possible.
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To what end?
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What do you mean to what end? Shes my baby girl, I'm not letting some sweaty little boy violate her. Once you have kids, you'll understand how I feel. Your daughter is your most prized possession in the world.
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That's the creepiest thing I've ever heard. A daughter is not a possession. She's a person, and like other people, she has free will.
You're deluding yourself if you think you're going to be able to exercise absolute control over her. If she turns 16 and decideds she wants to have sex, she's going to have sex, and there's little (Read: nothing) you can do to stop her short of locking her a in a closet. If she wants to have some sweaty little boy violate her, that's her decision to make.
In any case, I fail to see how keeping her a virgin as long as humanly possible is a form of protection. Sex is the most dangerous when you know nothing about it, and in all things, the best way to learn something it to do it. I'm not saying you should encourage your daughter to go out and have as much sex as she can "for the experience", nor do I presume to tell you how to raise your children, but sooner or later, wether you like it or not, chances are your kids are going to be having sex, and it'll be a damned shame if they're clueless at 30.
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That's not creepy at all. That's being a good father. If you give up on spreading your morals to your children, then you're a poor parent, and shouldn't have children. Some people DO get married BEFORE they have sex you know. I applaud MWright for the respect he has for his daughter. His concern for what she does tells me he is a good parent.
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| Re: What are you views on this? [message #309879 is a reply to message #308977] |
Fri, 11 January 2008 12:42 |
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Dover
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I think people misunderstood me when I said "creepy". Perhaps it's the wrong word for the situation. In any case, the terminology of "possession" doesn't bother me. I know what MWright967 means. What bothers me is that he's completely ignoring his daughters side of the story.
Spread your morals to her. That's fine. Just be aware that the time is approaching when the decision won't be yours to make anymore.
| DarkDemin wrote on Thu, 03 August 2006 19:19 |
Remember kids the internet is serious business.
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